friends vs Wifey
Maybe after a while or something happened then we all know who really is our friends that stood by our side. Anyway I always had a hard time when comes [FRIENDS] , I don't really have an idea who would be there for me since I am considered to be independent to most of the people I known. It's easy to socialise with people but the hardest part is to have a strong bond with them. So far I could only say my wifey is the one I trust. In case if you don't know who is my wifey , may be you should check out my social platforms. I tend to be more reserved when comes having a heart to heart conversation with my friends because I don't even know can i really trust them. I used to have a good friend in my secondary school , don't worry we are still friends just that I choose not to say too much information. She had betrayed me once and one time is enough for me to not trust her again. Currently we are to be considered as the hi - bye friends..Again , people you met doesn't mean you guys are really friends. Sometimes they could just be your acquaintance that's all. If not you could always try to be a little bit more reserve until you know the other party could be trusted.
Clean Eating
I should be guilty of this - Clean Eating. Many would ask what is clean eating? Basically it is consuming food in the most natural state , try to avoid consuming processed or refined food as much as possible. Why would people want to eat clean? For my honest option , I want to make small changes in my lifestyle. I want to be healthy even when I grow old. However , I am not doing it daily. Not because I don't want to but I find it hard to control my craving for sweet stuffs. Sometimes when I see my friends are having KOI , I would also like to have it. (In case you do not know , I have a major obsession with KOI) Since I am not able to eat clean for everyday , why not I try to eat clean for at lest once in a week? It is baby step at lest I am doing something instead of nothing but ranting on my blog. I take my time , and slowly progress to 3 times a week. For now I am eating clean 3 times a week , and working out everyday. Hopefully someday I am able to eat clean for everyday...
Perpetrators vs Victims
I came across a post at WeChat last night, the post was about going back with your ex. One thing came into my mind instantly "Going back your ex?" or do you mean begging your ex to come back to your side once again? Sorry , I can't bring myself to go back to my ex. Although I do miss my ex and cried myself to sleep every night but I am not going back to my ex. ( Let's put it this way, I've just broken up with my ex about a month ago. Anyway this is not even true at all~ ) WHY? This isn't about who dumped who, since one party had already made that decision I'll respect my ex's decision. I know the other party definitely had went through countless of thoughts before he/she had made that choice. To be honest , breaking up isn't about one person's issue. The real truth about breaking up is affecting both persons at two different timing.The perpetrators (This refers to the ones who initially the break up )would normally feel a sign of relieve at first , finally he/she is free from the mess he/she got into. After a while perhaps he/she would think back all the ups and downs with their ex. The moments they shared were REAL , at lest nobody could denied that. They would probably think of going back to their ex , if their ex are still single and unable to move on. There would be another type which would want go back to their ex even though their ex had already moved on and started a new relationships. It feels like someone had snatched their toys away from them. Both types of perpetrator would normally faced the post effect of break up after they have seen their ex had either moved on or started a relationships with another person.
The Victims (The ones who get dumped) would normally could not stop crying for a few day , few weeks or even few months. Maybe they just couldn't believed they got dumped by a perpetrator or not willing to believe why their partner had dumped them. They would be the ones facing the break up effect immediately. Most of the victims would asked why their partners had initiated break up , did they do anything wrong or is there something they can do to reverse the break up? Unfortunately , it a very slim chance of being together once again. If things are able to make up , please cherish your other half and put in an extra effort to keep up the relationships (Speaking from a girl's view) For those relationships were not able to make up. Nothing much to say , moved on completely and learn to love yourself more than you should love the other party. Don't get into a relationship because you feel lonely. After a few weeks of crying , it's time to start loving yourself more than you should. Pick yourself up and move on.
Overall : I am the perpetrators and the victims in my past relationships , I did some major mistakes in my life. As a perpetrator , I should be more understanding/ forgiving toward my ex. It's not something major , maybe that was my ex's way to show my ex loved me. I was very immature....
Speaking from a victim's point of view , I'm glad I am over my ex. Some things were not meant to be , no point forcing it.
Love yourself even if you're poor
Maybe at a point of time , we feel we don't have that money to travel to other countries like France , Italy , England , American , Belgium and etc. Travel doesn't mean we have to travel to Europe or out of Singapore. This semester break , I did not travel out of singapore. Sylvia and me we're exploring the different parts of singapore together with few of our friends. Yesterday we went with Mona to Sg Buloh Wetland Reserve , embracing the beauty of Mother Nature. Seriously I didn't even know there's a place in Singapore called Sg Buloh Wetland Reserve even though I live in singapore for several years. That was a new experience for me and our friends. If Sylvia did not mention about going there I guess I won't know about it. Travel doesn't mean we have to travel to other countries. To me , it could be anything from cafe hunting to a mini vacation in the country itself depend on how we view it
Be vain but not shallow
You may call me vain but not shallow. I have to admit I am vain because I always spend too much time on my clothes , shoes , and make up products. However I do give some serious thought when I am shopping. I don't do repulsive shopping anymore at my age after I have realized how much money I spent on useless items. It's not worth it to spend on things you are not going to wear, use or even to be considered as a gift. Buy what you want or need but not buy it because you're angry with someone else.
Be your own "Man"
I don't remember when was the last time I ever tried to relay on others, maybe not even once? It is definitely not because I don't want to relay on others , the real reason was I simply could not find someone to relay one. That was before when I met my wifey , Wei Ting. All my friends / acquaintances do know how independent I am. It is not easy to be your own "Man" , which means I am doing some things exactly like a man. From standing up for someone else to not breaking a promise. Don't worry I am not behaving like a man , just that I do appreciate the fine qualities a man could have. I want to have the same qualities like them , I want to be that "Man" in me. Please don't view me as a weak girl , because I am simply not. What a man could do , I will also try my best and be like them. If I not strong enough , who else would protect me?
I do fancy being alone
When I looked back at my adolescent years , I realized I had grown up so much. From a rather timid young girl to a teenager who is bold and daring to speak what's on her mind. I have changed or I should say I'm changing consistently. I am too used to being alone till at one point Sylvia commented that I should hang out more with her. I don't feel lonely when I am shopping alone，reading alone at a local cafe. Really , I do enjoy spending time alone! I don't feel I'm oblige to do anything yet I am doing everything according to how I want it to be done.
Never give up on yourself
Just completed with yesterday workout routine at wee hours, I love it! That was the very first time I had completed every single tasks for that particular day. I remembered the last time when I had completed everything when I'm still on beginner's calendar. Yup , I got slacked off from my workout for at lest a month. The reason was simple : I could not find my motivation. What got me back from working out was one of Cassey's Video. (Don't Ever give up on yourself) That video was pretty emotional, it's was very easy to relate to anybody out there. For me , it's very emotional. I want to follow my dream very badly. I didn't keep dreaming and not working hard towards it. I want to make it big!
Name: Lo Yuk Ling
Lks-Rose has been my official personal blogging site since 2014. I normally don't change my URL names
unless I have to for crucial reasons. At first I blogged for about half a year and then I totally abandoned my blog for another
3+ months for tumblr. After getting used to tumblr, I only saw tumblr as a reblogging sites, and I moved back to blogspot because I can't seem to find tumblr as a serious personal blog, I think it's more for reblogging ideas and images.
Travel to Paris 
